” In order to make a good inventory I need to go to my roots and discover how I came to be the person that I am today. As the saying goes, “We are our parents.”
When we were small we “swallowed” our parents, meaning “swallowed” their main personality characteristics. Even today parents, grandparents, a stepparent, or guardian are all now part of our personality — for good or for ill. For myself to escape from my depression I need to discover how I might have received certain messages about myself from these adults who surrounded me as a helpless infant and child. All of us have received messages as children — some helpful and others not so helpful. Some messages directed toward us might have made us feel worthless because we got the message that we could never do anything to please others. ”
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It has been said that the make-up of one’s personality is a mix of the personal, the biological and the environmental. As for our parents, so much of who we are can be traced back to early childhood beliefs about ourselves. When we t reflect on early childhood experiences are there any messages about ourselves that come to mind presently. These messages could be helpful to our development or not so helpful. Write down in your Workbook some of these reflections.