DECISION 4. “i will be interested in the other person.”
“The best gift that you can give another person is to take an interest in them.”
Taking the other peron seriously, means being concerned about what they are concerned about. Remember little things about your new friend. Ask, if they life to read? Do they prefer Fiction or non-fiction? Do they like to go to movies? What are their hobbies?
You have to listen to another person to really know one. Seem simple enough? Be sure and share some of the things that you like to do with your free time.
People feel good when someone wants to know something about them.”
Reader. Please add something in your own life that you like to talk about with new friends. Do you like to share things which you are proud of in your life?
Tomorrow: (5) Leaving Loneliness Behind. I WILL improve my skills in Listening and asking questions. This is my way to get to know the other person.