David Karp, in his work Speaking of sadness: Depression, Disconnection, and the Meanings of Illness (1996) confesses that in the middle of interviewing persons for this work states, “I was initially puzzled by the number of respondents who spontaneously spoke about the role of spirituality in their lives. During the early stages of the data collection, however spirituality meant no more or less to me than any of the large number of issues that were coming out of the interviews. At a certain point, though, enough people spoke about spirituality that I began routinely to ask everyone about it. Certainly there were many who had little to say, and some who claimed no interest in spirituality, but the question often elicited an outpouring of talk. After 25 or so interviews, it seemed that my anticipated chapter on coping and adapting would have to pay at least some attention to the role of spirituality.” (p.190).
Karp was deeply impressed by what he calls the “courage and grace” how some of his interviewees faced their own pain of depression. He says he “left many interviews with a sense that spiritually engaged individuals were in touch with something important. ” He concludes by saying “These people possessed or knew something that I didn’t.” (pp. 190 -191).
I think most of you who are reading my posts know that I too am an advocate of the power of spirituality in the recovery process for persons depressed. In the American culture and most probably in most Western cultures, where one’s lack of meaningful work and diminishing intimate relationships, or “double trouble” as a colleague of Karp, Charles Derber points out, promotes a community of strangers, alone, isolated and disconnected. He describes depression as the disease of disconnection. Freud when asked what makes for human happiness he replied ” arbeiten und leben”. (work and love).
All the above is put before you, the reader, to continue to present to you how important my own recovery from depression continues to this day because of my own spirituality dependent on my Higher Power, or the God of my understanding. In BELIEVING IS SEEING:15 WAYS TO LEAVE THE PRISON OF DEPRESSION (2014) I share how I believe that I am not alone, as I have other fellow travelers who will lead me around the ditches and the potholes of that old depressive life style that once ruled my thoughts and actions. Now I am on a personal mission of growth and recovery.” (p.13).
I still have my potholes, ditches and rough seas to maneuver around,. Thanks to a Power greater than myself— I pray and continue rowing to shore, and this Power as I understand it, has been getting me to that safe harbor of serenity and safety.